I can’t believe that selecting backerboard could be so hard. I ended up with three finalists: Wonderboard, Durock, and Hardiebacker.
In a survey of Home Depot employees, the inter-webs, and people I know, Durock was the clear loser. Most people were evenly split between Wonderboard and Hardiebacker. In the end, I am going with Hardiebacker, mainly because that’s what my cousin suggested. Also, you can get it with a grid embedded on the surface to make it easier to line up tile, assuming that it’s level.
Now that I’ve got that out of the way, it was pretty easy to find 1-1/4 inch corrosion resistant screws. Not sure if the spelling error is intentional or not due to trademark infringement (look carefully, the name is missing an “e”).